“I believe in everything until it’s disproved”. John Lennon
I was really happy to read today that Thusha Kamaleswaran has defied the odds and is making remarkable progress in her recovery.
Two years ago, at the age of 5, Thusha’s spine was shattered by a stray bullet during a gang war. Happily playing in her uncle’s shop minutes before being shot, Thusha was left fighting for her life, almost bleeding to death and having to be revived twice after suffering two heart attacks.
The amazing thing about this story for me is the fact that despite doctors predicting Thusha would be permanently paralysed and confined to a wheelchair for the rest of her life, her family made the decision NOT to tell her this.
This courageous schoolgirl has never stopped believing therefore she would walk again and is now taking steps on a treadmill with a harness. She is completely focused on being able to dance and play basketball again, never doubting that she will. Could part of her recovery be attributed to her mind not knowing that she isn’t, according to doctors, supposed to recover?
When doctors originally told me there was nothing they could do for my condition and that I would have to resign myself to a life of disability and pain I wouldn’t accept this. I stubbornly researched other hospitals, treatments and natural options available to me and never gave up hope. Although I am not fully recovered (yet) I am more mobile than originally predicted and, like Thusha, carry out the same gruelling physio exercises day after day, fully committed to my recovery.
The mind is such a powerful tool. I completely understand the doctors have to predict, to the best of their knowledge, what they think the future will hold for patients but, in many cases, this can be nothing more than an educated guess based on past similar cases and their knowledge of the body.
Whereas it’s true that a spine is a spine, the difference is, the awesomely amazing difference, is that we are all beautifully human with unique outlooks, thought processes and coping mechanisms.
If you have been “written off” by anyone don’t give up hope I say. That belief really could be the difference between succeeding or not. If you are searching for a miracle, never forget you are one.